Dating For Indian Guys Is Difficult In Usa
I've never seriously dated an Indian guy before. I don't willingly avoid them; it's just kind of happened that way. I'm Indian-American. My parents came to America in their 20s and had me in Long.
Secondly, just because I’m Indian doesn’t mean curry is all I eat. Please don’t be startled when you see me having some fries, thanks. Hair is a HUGE problem for us. I wish I was joking. But hair is a HUGE problem we Indians have to bear with. I think Indian guys and girls can empathize with me. In China, dating schools for men are a rising trend. A gender imbalance in China has given women more power in the dating world. China has a hefty gender imbalance — in 2016, there were 33.6 million more men than women in the country — which, unsurprisingly, takes a toll on men who seek out heterosexual relationships. Answer (1 of 57): Yes they do 😂 and I don’t care what anyone says on here. I’m speaking from personal experience. Indian men love me! They literally stalk me online and a lot of Indian follow me on my social media accounts. Oct 18, 2016 The Real Reason Why Indian Men Suck At Dating. Indian men don’t make the best partners, or so everyone believes. Obvious how the guy feels extra protective and possessive of the woman he.
Indian men are a unique breed. Yes, there are several clichés you get to hear about Indian men, and though most of them are true, you can never quite understand them fully. Dating Indian men, on the other hand, is a whole different story. Tricky and dangerous at the same time, here are 20 things you must know about dating an Indian man.
1. The looks: When it comes to Indian men, it is hard to differentiate between a glance and a venereal stare. What's more, their eyes are talented enough to scan a female body within microseconds. Inherently faulty eyeballs?
2. The wooing: Can someone please correct the definition of wooing for these men? Just for the record, wooing does not involve cat-calling, ‘that’ creepy smile or talking in a way that makes it so obvious that our breasts are all that's on your mind!
3. The not-to-smooth moves: We wish Indian men would buy themselves Dating for Dummies already! Keeping us waiting at a bus/metro stop, bringing their friends along for support, ordering for us and going dutch definitely don't make them dating material. And just because we went on a date, doesn’t mean we've devoted our lives to being subservient to your feelings and choices!
4. The unrealistic expectations: Yes, we went on a date with you. Yes, we enjoyed your company. No, it is not all right to presume that we will sleep with you, marry you and produce offspring for you.
5. False notions: Men tend to generalise women. We have a tattoo, enjoy a drink or two and hang out with your friends, so we must definitely be ‘easy,’ right? Honestly, we don’t know where you got your education, but you need to go back for some common sense.
6. The talks: 'It is not a relationship baby, it’s ‘so’ much more than that.' This one is for the oversmart Indian men. Sure, why don’t you keep believing that we women are stupid enough to believe all the incessant banter that comes out of your mouth?
7. The 'prince' treatment: Your parents treat you like a prince. Well, guess what. You are not even close!
8. His mother: Nothing and no one ever supercedes the Indian mother. We might be the prettiest, talented, richest, kindest people on the planet but we have to be approved by ‘mumma’ first!
9. The smell: Indian men think that body odour is acceptable. Hence, they do a great job at slaying everything in their wake. If we placed smelly Indian men in a war zone, the enemy would automatically surrender before they die from the toxic fumes.
10. The clothing: It is a given fact that Indian men are among the laziest creatures on the planet. Wearing the same clothes day after day gives is plain disgusting. To add to our misery, most of them also recycle their underwear by wearing them inside out. Puke face.
11. The spitting and pissing syndrome: We've seen men stop their cars in the middle of rush hour traffic, open their fly, pull out their appendage and piss on the road in full public view. Honestly, are they expecting a standing ovation?
12. Etiquette: Opening doors, dropping us home, waiting till we're dressed... are things Indian men are still to learn. And just so you know, you'd be foolish to expect a 'Please' or 'Thank You.'
13. Sex: Coming from the land of Kama Sutra, we are ashamed to admit that Indian men know nothing about the female body, let alone are aware of what to do in bed. Unfortunately for them, we are not porn stars and that's not how we like to have sex!
14. Anti-friends: Why are they always scared of meeting our friends? Is it insecurity, ego issues or an inferiority complex? Be a man and face the fact that we have a life and it's okay to be involved in it.
15. The possessiveness: Do not meet your friends, do not go that place, do not work in that office, do not eat that. Who the heck do they think they are? We really don't need two dads.
16. His caste: You're both not the same caste, so it's not working out? Sure! So why doesn’t he quit breathing the same air too? What, are we living in the 1800s?
17. His background: Just because his father can afford a luxury car doesn’t give him the right to have any girl that catches his fancy.
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18. Other options: They are with you, but they still have the right to ogle at women passing by. Venereal stares are forgivable according to Indian men. So are sexual innuendos. Unless they are acted upon. Pfft!
19. The ego: Studies have shown that larger the ego, smaller the appendage. In fact, studies also show that men who honk a lot are sexually frustrated beings. Now you know.
20. Arranged marriages: You will never be the one he marries because after all mommy insists on an arrange marriage for her prince. Love, feelings, freedom of choice and thought really don’t matter!
Written by Pakhee Malhotra
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I've posted about this on the ABCD sub in the past but it got deleted so I thought maybe since this is a girls sub it's easier to talk about this. I see a lot of Indian guys get pissed when they see Indian girls with non Indian guys. They act like Indian girls are being stolen from them. They think that Indian girls are not dating other Indians because they want to assimilate, hate their culture, don't want to be domestic and think of Indian men as misogynistic, or that they're just fucking around for the fun of it and then settling for an arranged marriage. I can understand that some people do have racial fetishes which are definitely problematic. But why is it so hard to accept that not all Indian girls go out of their way to find non Indian guys? That you just so happen to meet someone who you have chemistry with and like each other's personalities and interests? That it is very possible to maintain your culture in an interracial relationship?
EDIT: I hope you know I'm referring more to relationships that come about unexpectedly. Like they just happen to meet and hit it off. Not girls who only date a certain race. No you know how horrible these attitudes sound. Like what do they want the girl to do, be like oh I've developed feelings for you and we have chemistry but you're not Indian so no thanks. Naturally you're going to want to act on your feelings. Not every relationship is planned or done through dating apps. In fact most of the couples, where both are Indian, I know started dating in college and there was never parental pressure to get married or a desire on their side. They just met and hit it off. My whole point is why is there hate on love?
